Basically a relay is an electromagnetic solenoid that controls the
opening
and closing of a set of contacts. So to use it to take the current
off a
switch you take the wire coming out of the switch (the switched
voltage) and
instead of running to your lights or whatnot run it to one side of the
solenoid and ground the other side. Now, when you pull your lights on
the
only current that the switch contacts see is that necessary to close
the
solenoid which will then close the relay contacts.
You then run a large 12V source to one side of the relay contacts and
connect your lights or whatnot to the other side and they are now
switched
by the relay.
See Russ' diagrams for a diagram of what Im trying to say.
Keith